Imagine this scenario: At home, your daughter lives as the girl God made her to be. At school, she claims to be a boy, and her teachers and classmates affirm this. The shocking twist? You, the parent, are left in the dark about her life at school.
Sage’s parents experienced this firsthand when the school their daughter attended kept Sage’s decision to identify as a boy hidden, even after she was sexually assaulted in the boy’s bathroom. And, that was only the beginning of a harrowing tale – one that you can hear today at 1 pm ET.
After racing to save Sage from a dangerous path of transgender interventions (and much more), Sage’s parents began sharing her testimony, which eventually inspired the introduction of “Sage’s Law” in the state of Virginia. The bill would require teachers and school officials to inform at least one parent of a child’s gender confusion and to discuss counseling options for the child.
Sage’s story is not easy to hear, but it reminds us of the serious threat gender ideology poses to our kids – and the importance of protecting parental rights. Josh Hetzler of The Family Foundation (our state ally in Virginia) shares Sage’s story in today’s live video, and how he and his team are fighting to protect kids like Sage. Don’t miss this gripping story!
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“Sometimes I would, like, cry for hours on end and I just wouldn’t feel anything other than empty,” said Chloe Cole as she recalls how she felt after years on cross-sex hormones.
By the time she was 12 years old, Chloe Cole felt she should have been a boy – and she had heard that the only solution was to pursue irreversible bodily changes to make her look more like a boy, too. Chloe began taking male hormones and by age 15 underwent a double mastectomy.
Now 18 years old, Chloe has “detransitioned” (returned to living as a girl) and has been bravely sharing her story nationwide to warn others of the harsh reality of “transitioning” as a minor. Her story gives a shocking insight into the dangers of the transgender interventions for minors who struggle to embrace their God-given sex. Stories like Chloe’s are why we say minors need #HelpNotHarm.
She recounted her transition experience at the Social Conservative Conference, where we discussed her story and the need for Family Policy Alliance’s work to protect our children.
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Here at Family Policy Alliance, we’ve been working on this issue since 2017, when we drafted the first version of a bill to protect minors from transgender interventions. We call them “Help Not Harm” bills because we believe that hurting children deserve a chance at real help, not the harm of hormones and surgeries. Now, just this year alone, at least 21 states around the country have introduced Help Not Harm-style legislation to protect children. The movement is growing!
To learn more about this issue and what you can do, be sure to listen in to our conversation with Chloe Cole!
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Emma Rarden
Communications Specialist – Producer
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Dear Friends,
Along with our allies at Kansas Family Voice, we have an update and urgent request for your help.
Governor Kelly has chosen to veto the Childhood Mutilation Prevention Act (SB 26), a bill that protects children from the irreversible harm of gender transition surgery and procedures. You helped us get this bill passed, and now we need your help once again to get it across the finish line!
The effort to override Gov. Kelly’s veto could being Wednesday, and we need you to contact your legislators and urge them to vote “Yes.”
Kansans overwhelmingly support protecting children from harm and empowering parents in education!
The Child Prevention Mutilation Act is based on our model Help Not Harm Bill. It would prevent healthcare practitioners from performing dangerous, irreversible gender transition surgeries on children, including mastectomies or “top surgery.” It would also prohibit treating children with hormone therapy and other nonsurgical gender transition procedures that cause irreversible effects like infertility and body changes. Finally, it holds doctors accountable by providing a way to sue doctors that perform these procedures on children.
Our kids deserve to be kept safe from predatory medical procedures. Please send a message to your legislator today telling him or her to support SB 26!
It only takes a minute in our Action Center. By doing so, you will help ensure Kansas law helps, not harms, our kids.
Sincerely,
Joseph Kohm III
Director, Public Policy
PS – After you’ve taken action, watch for a message telling you how to follow up with your legislators via telephone to leave a voicemail for them as well. That will double the impact! And please share this with friends. Thank you!
Two years ago, we witnessed an incredible moment: Arkansas became the first state to legally protect children from transgender interventions. It was the first Help Not Harm law, as we like to call them. We believe that hurting children deserve real help, not the irreversible harm of hormones and surgeries.
And last year, momentum built around this issue.
But the growth we have seen this year has been nothing short of explosive.
Just this month alone—Mississippi, Tennessee, Iowa, and Kentucky joined the list of states protecting minors. And, in Kentucky’s case, the legislature overrode their governor’s veto in order to make the protections law. Talk about commitment to protecting kids! (Kentucky’s not alone in this: the Arkansas legislature did the same in 2021.)
And in total, the numbers are incredible. Six states have laws protecting minors from both cross-sex hormones and mutilating surgeries (Arkansas, South Dakota, Mississippi, Tennessee, Iowa, and Kentucky). Two states have modified versions of the law in place (Arizona and Utah). Seven state legislatures are actively considering legislation to protect minors (Missouri, Nebraska, Texas, Wisconsin, Ohio, New Hampshire, and South Carolina). And in Indiana and Montana, bills sit on the governors’ desks awaiting their action.
Why all this action? Americans are waking up. They’ve heard the tragic stories of courageous detransitioners like Chloe Cole, who had a double mastectomy at age 15. They’ve learned about the alarming rise in teen girls identifying as male, and heard about the devastating harms of transition – harms that include sterilization, loss of healthy organs, and so much more.
Across the country, we’re saying together: enough is enough. No child should be told they are in the wrong body, sterilized, and left with the deep pain of regret.
Here at Family Policy Alliance, we’ve been working on this issue since 2017, when we drafted the first version of a Help Not Harm bill.
But none of this could have happened without you. Your support of Family Policy Alliance helps us provide critical behind-the-scenes support to legislators, our national allies, and to the alliance we host of 40 state family policy councils. Because of you, we can draft legislation and alert people like you when there’s a need to take action in your state. And because of you, kids around the nation are being protected from a lifetime of hurt and regret.
If you’d like to partner with us in this work, click here to make a one-time or recurring gift. Every amount, whether $500 or $50 or $25, makes a difference to protect kids and families around the nation.
Thank you for standing with us to protect children. Here’s to many more Help Not Harm victories!
Meridian Baldacci
Director, Strategy
Dear <Namefill>/Friend,
We have an urgent request for your help.
We need your help protecting Hoosier children. This week, the Indiana legislature passed Senate Bill 480, a version of our Help Not Harm model bill. The bill is now headed to Governor Eric Holcomb’s desk and we need you to encourage him to sign it!
This important bill protects vulnerable children from gender transition surgery and procedures while holding doctors accountable.
Senate Bill (S.B.) 480, based almost entirely on our model Help Not Harm Bill, would prevent healthcare practitioners from performing dangerous, irreversible gender transition surgeries on children, including mastectomies or “top surgery.” It would also prohibit treating children with hormone therapy and other nonsurgical gender transition procedures that cause irreversible effects like infertility and body changes. Finally, it holds doctors accountable by providing a way to sue doctors that perform these procedures on children.
Our kids deserve to be kept safe from predatory medical procedures. Along with our friends at Indiana Family Institute, who have worked tirelessly to get this bill passed, we need your help to protect them by encouraging Gov. Holcomb to do the right thing and sign S.B. 480!
Please send a message to Gov. Holcomb telling him to sign S.B. 480.
It only takes a minute using the form below. By doing so, you will help ensure Indiana law helps, not harms, our kids.
Sincerely,
Joseph Kohm III
Director, Public Policy
Dear Friends,
Along with our allies at Kentucky Family Foundation, we have an update and urgent request for your help.
Governor Beshear has chosen to veto SB 150, a bill that protects our children from the irreversible harm of gender transition surgery and procedures. You helped us get this bill passed, and now we need your help once again to get it across the finish line!
The vote to override Gov. Beshear’s veto could happen today or tomorrow, and we need you to contact your legislators and urge them to vote “Yes.”
Kentuckians overwhelmingly support protecting children from harm and empowering parents in education!
Senate Bill (S.B.) 150 is based almost entirely on our model Help Not Harm Bill. It would prevent healthcare practitioners from performing dangerous, irreversible gender transition surgeries on children, including mastectomies or “top surgery.” It would also prohibit treating children with hormone therapy and other nonsurgical gender transition procedures that cause irreversible effects like infertility and body changes. Finally, it holds doctors accountable by providing a way to sue doctors that perform these procedures on children.
Our kids deserve to be kept safe from predatory medical procedures. The bill also ensures commonsense student privacy protections in restrooms and locker rooms, and it empowers parents to have a say in their child’s education.
Please send a message to your legislator today telling him or her to support S.B. 150!
It only takes a minute in using the form below. By doing so, you will help ensure Kentucky law helps, not harms, our kids.
Sincerely,
Joseph Kohm III
Director, Public Policy
PS – After you’ve taken action, watch for a message telling you how to follow up with your legislators via telephone to leave a voicemail for them as well. That will double the impact! And please share this with friends. Thank you!
We have an urgent request for your help.
We need your help protecting the next generation of Texans from woke ideology. On Monday, the Texas Senate Committee on State Affairs will consider Senate Bill 14 (S.B. 14), based on our model Help Not Harm Act, and we need you to encourage them to support it.
This important bill protects vulnerable children from gender transition surgery and procedures while holding doctors accountable.
S.B. 14, based in part on our model Help Not Harm Bill, would prevent healthcare practitioners from performing dangerous, irreversible gender transition surgeries on children, including mastectomies or “top surgery.”
It would also prohibit treating children with hormone therapy and other nonsurgical gender transition procedures that cause irreversible effects like infertility and body changes. Finally, it holds doctors accountable by enabling medical malpractice suits by victims and authorizing the Texas Attorney General to enforce compliance with the law.
Our kids deserve to be kept safe from predatory medical procedures. Along with our friends at Texas Values, who have worked hard to advance these bills, we need your help to protect them.
Please send a message to your senator today, telling him or her to support S.B. 14
It only takes a minute using the form below. By doing so, you will help ensure Texas law helps, not harms, our kids.
Sincerely,
Joseph Kohm III
Director, Public Policy
As a young child and trauma survivor, Erin Brewer hated that she was a girl. Life would be easier, she thought, if she were only a boy. So, she began walking down the path of transgenderism. But that wasn’t the end of her story.
In a new video today, hear Erin’s inspiring story of how she came to love her God-given identity, and her encouragement for struggling children and their loved ones.
A word to parents: this interview may not be appropriate for young ears. We’d recommend popping in headphones if little ones are around. But, we do encourage you to listen when you can! Erin’s story and practical encouragement will be well worth your time.
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Erin Brewer is a public speaker and author who advocates for protecting children from the transgender agenda. She is the co-founder of Advocates Protecting Children, a non-profit organization dedicated to fighting the gender industry and promoting good cognitive therapy and self-acceptance.
At Family Policy Alliance, we believe struggling children deserve #HelpNotHarm. To stay up to date on the fight to protect children and learn how to take action, follow us on social media!
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Emma Rarden
Communications Specialist – Producer
P.S. Have you checked out our NEW podcast? We pick the brains of newsmakers and experts to break down what’s happening now on the issues YOU care about. With new episodes weekly, you’ll be up to date on all things that affect your family. Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or Google Podcasts.
What started in Arkansas in 2021 has made its way to South Dakota. It’s a bill that protects vulnerable children from transgender interventions, including both dangerous sex-change surgeries and experimental hormones. Its name: Help Not Harm, because hurting children deserve real help – not irreversible harm.
Yesterday, South Dakota Governor Kristi Noem signed her state’s Help Not Harm Act, making South Dakota the second state in the nation with a law of this kind. The bill holds healthcare professionals accountable by providing child victims an opportunity to sue for damages.
To celebrate this news, join us on Facebook or YouTube Live in just a few minutes!
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Join us to hear from two people who worked on the front lines to make this bill into law. Rep. Bethany Soye (R-SD) and Norman Woods, Executive Director of Family Heritage Alliance, join Craig DeRoche to celebrate the victory of the Help Not Harm Act!
Here at Family Policy Alliance, we’ve been at work on this issue since 2017. And, while South Dakota is just the second state with a Help Not Harm law, there are many more states considering similar bills – that means more potential victories! Tune in today and follow us on social media (links below) to learn how you can get involved in your state!
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Emma Rarden
Communications Specialist – Producer
P.S. Have you checked out our NEW podcast? Conversations with Craig, produced by Family Policy Alliance, is your go-to podcast for all things family policy. Craig DeRoche picks the brains of family policy experts to break down what’s happening now. With new episodes weekly, you’ll be up to date on all things that affect your family. Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or Google Podcasts.
It’s THE topic of the moment.
Last week, Florida Governor Ron DeSantis spoke out about protecting young people who are struggling to embrace their God-given sex. He said: “The way to deal with that is to provide whatever counseling is needed – not to hack off their body parts… That is mutilation, and it is wrong.” Already under DeSantis, Florida’s medical board has updated its standards of care to protect children from these interventions.
Just hours later, former President Donald Trump chimed in with a list of executive actions he would take to protect children from the same dangerous procedures.
And last night President Biden got in on the action during his State of the Union address – albeit from the opposite perspective – when he called on Congress to pass the dangerous Equality Act for the sake of “LGBTQ Americans, especially transgender young people.”
What’s going on?
Americans are waking up en masse to the reality that the Left is teaching children – some of them extremely young – to consider “transitioning” to living as the opposite sex. Once this idea has been firmly planted in their minds, children are experimentally pushed onto a series of puberty blockers, cross-sex hormones, and eventually irreversible surgeries. The long-term result? A lifetime of heartache and physical hardship.
This politicized protocol is nothing short of a medical scandal. When a child is deeply struggling to embrace their God-given body, they need meaningful help and support – not the harm of experimental drugs and surgeries.
Here at Family Policy Alliance, we’ve long been working to protect children from these dangerous interventions, using legislation we call Help Not Harm.
My prediction? 2023 is the year of Help Not Harm.
It’s been a long time coming. We first started working on this legislation back in 2017. In 2021, Arkansas became the first state to adopt a version of it as law. That effort was led by an alumna of Family Policy Foundation’s Statesmen Academy, and heavily supported by our state ally, Arkansas Family Council.
Flash forward to today and lawmakers in at least ten states have introduced Help Not Harm bills – and we expect more to follow.
Here at Family Policy Alliance, we are busier than ever in the thick of this fight.
And we couldn’t do our work alone. Your partnership makes it possible for us to offer expert testimony at legislative hearings, host the nationwide alliance of policymakers working on this issue, alert you to opportunities to raise your voice, and so much more.
Would you consider a one-time or recurring donation to Family Policy Alliance? When you partner with us, you’re contributing to work that protects children from a lifetime of pain both physical and emotional – and you’re making a difference on one of the most pressing human rights issues of our day.
Together, we can make 2023 the year of protecting children. Will you join us in that fight?
Sincerely,
Meridian Baldacci
Director, Strategy